what if the not knowing is exactly where you’re meant to be?

This morning I woke up with this nagging feeling of anxiety. It was one of those mornings where everything felt like a question mark. There wasn’t a clear reason why, but I noticed how badly I wanted to fix it. I wanted it to go away, to feel better, to make sense of it all. 

So I sat down, got quiet, and listened, and this is what I heard: 

“You don’t always need a solution.” 

It sounds simple, but one of the hardest things to embody.

We live in a world that glorifies doing, fixing, hustling.
There’s an unspoken belief that if you’re confused, uncertain, or uncomfortable, something must be wrong. 

But what if being in a season of not knowing is exactly where you’re meant to be?

  There might be an inner knowing that change is coming, while still unsure of what this next chapter is.

It is a tender, vulnerable space where all I want is direction. An answer. A game plan. 

But here’s the thing:

Sometimes the answer is not to dig deeper or try harder.  It is easy to return to the default mode. To want to find a solution to move forward. Sitting without a clear path is confronting. 

What if some things are meant to be felt—not fixed?

What if some things are invitations to soften—instead of strategize? 

Maybe you're in a similar space right now—craving clarity about your career, your relationship, your healing. Maybe you’re also asking, 

“What’s the lesson here? 

Why is it taking so long? 

When will I feel aligned again?” 

So here’s what I want to say—with love, to you and to myself:

It is going to be okay. This space you’re in—the uncertainty, the in-between—is part of the journey. 

Maybe you’re not meant to fix it. Maybe you’re meant to feel it. 

To let it move through you, without trying to label it or make it mean something. Sometimes the clarity that we seek comes slowly, like the sunrise—moment by moment. 

Unshakable faith is trusting that you are being guided and protected.

It’s believing that what is meant for you is still finding its way to you.

Faith is a muscle that grows in challenge and resistance.

It doesn’t mean that you will never feel fear or doubt. It means you choose to stay open and trust in life's divine timing.

Can you let that be enough?

Can you let yourself be enough?

 Lately, I have been using this mantra when I notice my mind going down that spiral of judgment and worry. 

“I trust that what is meant for me will find me.

I don’t need all the answers right now.

I am being guided.

I am safe.

I am exactly where I’m meant to be.” 

Write it down. Return to it again and again. 

When we stop trying to micromanage the mystery, something powerful happens—
Peace begins to enter.

Let go of the pressure to have it all figured out.

You’re not behind. You’re not lost. You’re not broken. 

You’re in a new season of unfolding. 

And if you’re also navigating something tender right now, maybe this is exactly what your soul needed to surrender.

Keep showing up. Keep choosing love.
Keep taking care of your energy.
Keep believing that the best is still being written.

 Wrapping you up in infinite love.
We got this.

xo

Gen

Journal Prompts to Reflect On

What does faith look like for me right now?

What would it feel like to surrender the need for control?